Amy Winehouse

can you please tell me all the things about after the birth?

can you please tell me what happens after you give birth. the stuff nobody tells you.like hemorrhoids, bleeding ( for how long), losing control of pee…. all the things that are embarrassing if you dont mind can you tell me. i just really want to be prepared.
i am 29 weeks by the way…so its going to happen to me in a few months.
another question. did it hurt the first time you had sex after you healed, and is your sex life different because you had a child ( is it less pleasurable)
i know its kinda personal i just really want to know what to expect.